Practical Ability Everyone knows good morals, but what's most important is putting them into practice. What makes us stand out is our sensitivity to good knowledge, sharp thinking, and practical ability.

Ability to Read Extensively Read a lot, read regularly, read old and new books, books from our country and from China and the West, or literature, always read more. It's not to show off your knowledge on social media, but so that when you've read widely, your speech and demeanor become naturally attractive and comfortable for others in conversation. Reading is the cheapest way to grow up. Most successful people are those who go to the library alone when others are playing games.

Perseverance and Effort Perseverance and long-term effort are the basics to solve most problems. Doing a small thing well will get you positive feedback, and then you do one small thing after another, gradually earning everyone's trust. Accumulating over time like this, you'll become a better version of yourself. If you always avoid difficulties, blame yourself, try a little and then give up, returning to the starting point, most of these people fail because of the initial laziness in small matters.

Ability to Keep Calm When faced with a problem, you need to stay calm; a mature person gives others a sense of security. When in difficulty, first manage your emotions before solving the problem. Don't rush to conclusions; put the issue in a cycle of reflection – analysis – observation. The calmer you are, the better the solution you'll find; the more composed, the more your adversaries will be confused.

Ability to Reject Decisively If someone asks for your help and you hesitate, then decisively refuse. If you keep hesitating, you give them hope, and thinking it over before rejecting makes them disappointed. Learning to refuse decisively is a lesson that mature people need to study carefully.