Sorry for coming seven years late
Attention of Sichuan legal news at 05:11, March 05
Knowing that his daughter was coming, Kuang, who was serving his sentence in Neijiang prison, specially took out a pair of new cloth shoes from the depths of the cabinet: “clean, the soles are white.” He has been looking forward to this meeting for seven years. For this meeting, the police in the prison district have also worked hard for three years.
The police in the prison District worked hard to facilitate a special meeting for three years
Apologize for coming 7 years late: Yao’er, I’m sorry for you!
Knowing that his daughter was coming, Kuang, who was serving his sentence in Neijiang prison, specially took out a pair of new cloth shoes from the depths of the cabinet: “clean, the soles are white.” He has been looking forward to this meeting for seven years. For this meeting, the police in the prison district have also worked hard for three years.
The stagnant life of father and daughter
After long-term imprisonment, remorse for the crime, apology and missing for his daughter, Kuang was in low mood after he was imprisoned. His words and deeds during the transformation were paranoid and world weary. He violated prison rules and disciplines for many times, and even self mutilation and self injury.
Outside the prison, Kuang Dahong (a pseudonym), a daughter who grew up in the love of her parents, suddenly lost her close relatives at the age of 14. She was under the double yoke of criminal relatives and victim relatives. She was ignored by her relatives and went out to work after finishing junior high school. The pain of the family made the father and daughter have no contact for seven years, which also seriously hindered their confidence in actively facing the future development.
Neijiang prison prisoner evaluation and reform center decided to introduce family support into the correction from Kuang’s family relationship, in order to find a new breakthrough. He has been constantly visited and contacted, hung up again and again, persuaded and relieved again and again, and his efforts since 2019 have been responded at the beginning of this year. Kuang Dahong, who has received psychological counseling from the police for many times, is determined not to escape and agrees to come to Neijiang prison from Guangdong to meet her father.
Embark on a new road of life
On the day of the meeting, knowing that he was about to see his daughter, Kuang was so excited that he cried loudly that his asthma relapsed and the police in the prison area had to administer medicine to him many times. Before going to the meeting center, Kuang specially took out a pair of new cloth shoes from the depths of the cabinet: “clean, the soles are white.” Outside the meeting center, Kuang Dahong, who was also nervous, refused the head rope handed over by the police. She explained with some embarrassment: “I just washed my head, but I haven’t dried it yet.”
At the first sight of his daughter, Kuang’s tears fell down: “Yao’er, I’m sorry for you!” This apology came seven years late; She waited seven years for the apology. A short hour is precious and short. From their own recent situation to the current situation of their relatives, father and daughter have been talking about it all the time. What Kuang Dahong said most is: “don’t think about things. Make a good transformation.” “You are my only concern. You should live a good life. I will transform myself and go out to see you early.” Kuang didn’t know how many times he said this sentence to his daughter. Even if the police reminded that the meeting was over and the father and daughter had said goodbye, Kuang insisted on standing in front of the meeting window and watching his daughter’s back slowly go away.
The prison leaders attached great importance to this meeting, and handed over the consolation money applied by the prison district for Kuang Dahong to her, and encouraged Kuang Dahong to plan her life well and not to pay for Kuang’s crime with her life.
Kuang Dahong and Kuang both expressed their gratitude to the prison. Speaking of this meeting, both father and daughter feel that they have more understanding and acceptance of each other and will live and transform well in the future.
According to reports, this meeting is a practice of applying family therapy to the basic intervention of criminals in Neijiang prison. It is also an exploration of improving the relationship between criminals and their family members by means of face-to-face conversation and letters based on the evaluation results of criminals and the willingness of their relatives, so as to promote the recovery and growth of the mental health of problematic family members.