In this world, there are always people you don't like, and there are always people who don't like you. It's all normal. Moreover, no matter how good you are or how good the other party is, you can't ask each other. Because whether it's good or not is one thing, and whether you like it or not is another.
Deliberately trying to please people can only damage their own dignity. Don't fold your waist countless times in exchange for an indifferent low eyebrow. In exchange for condescending, the other party will only become more condescending and bossy. Without head on, there will never be equality.
Don't distinguish between good people and bad people. With the eyes of emotional tendency, it is inevitable to fall into intolerance. Bite, you can't say it's a bad dog. Dogs always bite people, which is the nature and mission of dogs. In other words, while staring at others, we should also see our own defects and deficiencies.
Of course, the ultimate love is more like a reunion between one self and another self in time. Willing to bloom for each other without reason, and will invest in each other hopelessly, which are the ultimate likes. At this time, if you only say that you have the same temper, interest and character, it's just shallow joy; The deepest love is love, the adhesion and attraction in life, and the persistence and affectionate look at each other in the depths of the soul.
This is a mysterious and grand privatization process. Privatization means that even if it is extremely wrong, it is infinitely correct. Sometimes, when you look back, you may not see one passing by. Sometimes, when you take out the heart of an angel, you don't necessarily get the courtesy of an angel. If the other party doesn't like it, they don't bother to install an angel for you. No one needs to play. Although the temporary hypocrisy can also comfort and intoxicate people, it will eventually leave a pain of prevarication and perfunctory injury.
Therefore, the most foolish thing in the world is to go to someone you don't like and ask why. If you don't like it, you don't like it. There's no reason. It's like a gust of wind blowing. All you have to do is pat the dust on your body, turn around and walk away quietly. Then, forget the person who doesn't like himself.
A person, dusty to live in this world, to like their own people and live. That's the best attitude. Don't lose happiness in the person who doesn't like you, and then forget happiness in the person who likes yourself.
Don't chase things that you can't do reluctantly. When you are tired for this, perhaps the other party is also the most tired. When you stop and put it down, you will eventually find that the sky will not fall, and the world is always surrounded by auspicious clouds for everyone.
Everyone is splashing in the secular mud. Therefore, you have to allow others to have some secular ideas and vision, just as sometimes you will become so secular. Love life with those who like you. In the people who don't like you, see the world. That's it.
Some people are born to love you, while others are destined to teach you. You work hard, but the other party doesn't care; What you hate deeply is what the other party is used to. Between like and dislike, it's either a knock or a twist. However, this is life, with intimate warmth and biting cold. It just wants to make your life richer and more complete.
In the vast life, there will always be one or several auspicious clouds for you. Instead of struggling with people you don't like or don't like you, it's better to take a happy walk under these auspicious clouds. There are not so many pleasant things in the world. Only one is enough.