When you are 10 years old, you should listen to your parents' admonition. Although many children think their parents are too nagging. In fact, how much love and hope are contained in the nagging voice of parents!
20-year-old life, to listen to friends talk. A 20 - year-old man always says "what my friend said" and "what my friend told me" At this time, friends are very important, but we should remember that "those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black".
At the age of 30, we should listen to our lovers. At the age of thirty, the words of parents are not easy to be recognized, and the opinions of friends are not easy to influence each other. At this time, only listening to the lover in love is the most powerful. However, because of the greatest strength, we should be more cautious and know where to go.
At the age of 40, we should listen to the suggestions of society. At the age of 40, according to Confucius, it is already the age of "no doubt", but modern people grow up in the era of knowledge explosion. At the age of 40, they still have to listen to the suggestions of social people.
At the age of 50, we should listen to the complaints of our wife and children. In a 50 year old life, it is not easy for his wife and children to sing "husband is really great" and "father is really great". Most husbands listen to the complaints of their wives and children. They don't think they earn enough money to buy cars and houses, so it's really difficult for a 50 year old man to do it.
60 year old life, to listen to public criticism. Confucius said that life at the age of 60 should be the age of "ear Shun". At the age of 60, life just needs to listen to the criticism given by the public. When you turn on the TV every day, those who are not famous in the world are middle-aged and elderly people. At this age, politicians and entrepreneurs should accept public comments from the public. In addition to talent and ability, morality is more important.
At the age of 70, we should listen to our own opinions. A 70 year old man has been struggling in society for 50 or 60 years. He has a certain understanding of society and himself. At this time, he should listen to his own opinions. 70 year olds should also pass on their experience and tell people their opinions. The so-called "retreat without rest" is the right time.
Life at the age of 80 should go and stay with nature. When you reach the age of 80, even 90 and 100, you don't have to worry about the length of human life, gain and loss, or even life and death. Everything is free to follow the natural law of life.