Be a man and do things, either sad or happy, become 10 enlightenment and lose 10 taboo

(1) Cheng Zhi's "10 enlightenment"

  1. Ability, power and determination are the "supporting points" for standing firm and walking well
    After knowing the stop, there is determination. After determination, there can be stillness. After stillness, there can be peace. After peace, there can be worry. After worry, there can be gain—— the Great Learning
    Ability is the foundation of an officer, which determines what you "can do"; Motivation is the condition of the officer, which determines what you "want to do"; Concentration is the guarantee of the officer, which determines what you "dare or dare not do"; Having the three determines what you "do".
    At present, the most valuable thing is perseverance, which can resist temptation, loneliness, poverty, sit on the "cold bench", and sit on the fishing boat despite the wind and waves.
    If you have the ability but no motivation, you will be discounted; If you have the ability and motivation but no concentration, everything will be wasted. These three are like "three legs", which can stand on their own, making people stand firm, do well and go far.

  2. Being able, capable and tolerant is the "big ladder" for progress
    Scholars learn to gather, ask and argue, live with leniency, and act with benevolence—— Book of changes · Qian
    A person's ability is a kind of quality. Being able to get along well and unite is a kind of realm, while being able to withstand temporary grievances, injustice and pain is a kind of cultivation.
    Ability lies in learning and doing constantly. Learning by doing and learning by doing will gradually lead to success. The ability lies in tolerance, tolerance, understanding and trust. The world is no bigger than an inclusive heart. Tolerance and tolerance can be integrated, harmonious and integrated. Tolerance lies in whether we can look at the long term and the overall situation. Only when we "have a long view of the scenery", can we calm down, suffer losses and suffer sins. "If we don't think twice, there will always be defeat, and people can bear it without worry".
    Being able, able to handle and tolerant is like three big steps and three big barriers. When you cross and step over, you can move forward smoothly.

  3. Ideas, statements and methods are the "triple jump" of ability
    Do not walk without knowing. Know but not, just unknown—— sunny
    A person's ability level can be said to have two leaps, one is to turn the idea in his heart into a statement, and the other is to turn the statement in his mouth into a practical method.
    Everyone has ideas, but it is very different to say them out and "speak clearly and clearly" so that people can "listen, remember and use them".
    It is called true skill and wisdom to speak of people's hearts, move people, warm people, infect people, convince and admire people; If we can turn these ideas and statements into concrete actions and methods, put them into practice and achieve results, it will be great capital and wisdom.
    The level of each person's ability lies in the difference, at which level to jump.

  4. Knowledge, insight and courage are the "magic weapons" of those who become great
    Those who know are not confused, those who are benevolent are not worried, and those who are brave are not afraid—— The Analects of Confucius Zi Han
    Knowledge is a person's amount of knowledge; Knowledge is a person's experience, an accumulation of experience, a mind and vision. With knowledge but no knowledge, it is easy to be narcissistic, headstrong, sit idly by and watch the sky, and even become arrogant at night.
    What one sees and hears will change one's life, but it will ruin one's life unknowingly. Everyone is either reading or traveling. One has to be on the road for his soul and body.
    Courage and insight is courage and boldness, courage and insight is courage and resourcefulness, and courage and insight is the embodiment of knowledge and insight. What is culture? The combination of "three knowledge" and "three knowledge" means that a truly literate person has the magic weapon to create a great cause and achieve great things.

  5. Contentment, lack of knowledge and dissatisfaction are the "correctors" of the course of life
    Those who are satisfied are fairyland, while those who are not satisfied are mortal—— Ming Hong Yingming
    The key to life and work lies in the value orientation of life. Only in this way can we not toss, intoxicate and stop, and really get the "golden key" of life value.
    Contentment in life is not only a sober, but also a state of mind; Lack of knowledge in life is not only a kind of self-discipline, but also a kind of consciousness; Dissatisfaction is not only a responsibility, but also a spirit.
    Those who are satisfied are happy, those who know their deficiencies are brave, and those who are not satisfied enter. After dealing with the relationship between the three, we will get out of the small world of ourselves and enter the big world of life, and we will find an accurate life orientation.

  6. Vision, courage and perseverance are the "hard wings" to realize dreams
    Those who are proficient in righteousness have a broad vision and a flat heart; Those who favor interests have a narrow vision—— Qing · Hu Dayuan
    Whether a person can have unique insight, can penetrate into wood, and can see micro knowledge depends on whether his eyesight is sharp, sharp and unique. When fallacies and truth are intertwined, treacherous and facts crisscross, and phenomena and essence are confusing, eyesight can make oneself clear-minded, not confused, not confused, not mediocre, and can stand out from the crowd and excel.
    With vision, you have to have bold courage and tenacious perseverance to work hard. With courage, we can firmly grasp the fleeting opportunities and seize the commanding height; With perseverance, we can stick to it again and again, get out of the swamp of life and move forward with perseverance.

  7. Peace, tranquility and blandness are the "main songs" of happiness
    The most peaceful happiness in the world is to observe heaven and earth and the world, and slowly taste its harmony—— Sanmao
    "Don't be surprised by flattery or disgrace. Look at the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court; I forget everything, and let the clouds roll outside the sky." This is not only a realm, but also a state of mind and state. How to make peace, calm and plain become a normal requires precipitation and cultivation.
    Indifference is a sign of ambition, and tranquility is a sign of distance. Be calm to people, fame and interests, always maintain a calm state, calm state and light heart, and always "see through, think through, let go and forget" things outside your body, you will be calm and happy.
    "Gorgeous to the extreme, eventually plain", plain light is the most true.

  8. Self awakening, self alarm and introspection are "early warning devices" for health and safety
    The heart is like the source of water. When the source is clear, the flow is clear. The heart is regular and things are right—— Reading Records
    Self awakening, self alarm and introspection are self beating. They often put themselves under the "microscope" and "amplifier" for examination and physical examination. In this way, they can always be cautious about independence, early stage and micro stage, and often fear and dare not slack off.
    "Three self" is a kind of self torture. Only by constantly reflecting and reviewing themselves can we constantly correct ourselves and correct ourselves, so as not to deviate, skew and evil, and always walk on the right path.

  9. Self confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement are the "calming needle" to ride the wind and waves
    He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is clear. He who wins is strong, and he who wins is strong. Those who are content are rich, and those who are strong have ambition—— Chapter 33 of Tao Te Ching
    Confidence is the key to success. Confident people are always able to lift as light as a weight and put it back and forth freely. As long as we raise the sail of self-confidence in life, we can ride the wind and waves and forge ahead. Self confidence is based on a correct self-awareness. It is an external expression of strength, confidence and good attitude.
    Self confident people often show self-reliance, autonomy and self-improvement. They dare to be the master, are willing to be the master and can be the master in case of anything, and don't wait, rely and want; In the face of setbacks and difficulties, we will constantly strive for self-improvement, never give in to discouragement, and can be defeated but will not be defeated; In case of interference and noise, you can not be confused, lured or moved, and your heart is strong and determined.
    Self confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement is a kind of concentration and a "sea god needle" on the road of life.

  10. Gratitude, gratitude and gratitude are the "basic colors" of life
    The kindness of a drop of water should be rewarded by a spring—— Zengguang Xianwen
    Gratitude is the basic essence of traditional culture and the basic essence of being a man and doing things; If you lose this point, you will lose the basis and conditions of being a man and doing things.
    In life, you will always meet some people who are kind to you, especially those who have helped you in your growth and progress and in critical times. You can't, shouldn't and can't forget.
    Gratitude comes from knowing kindness. Gratitude does not stay in the mouth, but should be reflected in action. The key depends on whether others, especially those who are kind to themselves, can help others when they need help.

    (2) Defeat "10 Taboos"

    1. Selfishness, conceit and complacency are the "stumbling blocks" of complacency
      The world knows that taking is taking, but no one knows that taking with it is taking—— Later Han Dynasty
      Selfish people play their own "small 99" and "small abacus" all day. They take themselves as the center to consider trade-offs, and sometimes even haggle and calculate every penny. Selfish people are disgusting. Selfish people have no friends and don't understand the truth that being human is equal to being for themselves and helping others is actually helping themselves.
      Complacency and conceit are twin brothers. In essence, they are a kind of blind and wrong cognition of themselves. They despise others and only pay attention to their own thinking and psychology. "Don't boast at all. Complacency will overturn." Conceit and complacency are "obstacles", the "contraband" of life, and the beginning of a person's hesitation and stop at success.
    2. Vanity, hypocrisy and falsehood are the "obstacles" to progress
      A great husband is as thick as he is, not as thin as he is; In fact, it does not occupy its China—— Chapter 38 of Tao Te Ching
      Vanity covets superficial glory and magnifies and distorts self-esteem; Vain people often hope to get what they want through quick ways, sometimes even by unscrupulous means. Vanity, hypocrisy and falsehood all live in an unreal world. Their common characteristics are telling lies, doing false things and wearing masks.
      "When the time is poor, the festival is to see" and "honest officials are known". False is false. It can not stand the test of time and crisis. Vanity, hypocrisy and falsehood may be able to walk fast for a while, but they will never go far. It is an "obstacle" for a person to progress.
    3. Impetuosity, impatience and irritability are the "accelerator" of success or failure
      If you have talent but slow nature, you must be a great talent; He who is wise but angry is wise—— Qing Jinying
      At present, the most common problem in society is impatience, lack of peace, calm and plain state. Now many times, there is no lack of fire in the heart, but there is a lack of water in the heart; No lack of energy, but lack of toughness; No lack of passion, but lack of composure. Shallow water is noisy and deep water is quiet. If you want to achieve great things, you must learn to be calm.
      What is lacking in impatience and irritability is rationality, reason and composure. Many things lead to uncontrollable results or all previous achievements because they do not "control themselves" and "grasp themselves".
    4. Unbridled, indulgent and laissez faire are the "fatal injuries" of disgrace
      A man can restrain himself from trouble, do not deceive his heart, and sleep peacefully—— Yuan · Ma Zhiyuan
      Say what you want and do whatever you want, regardless of the situation, sooner or later.
      A person has to say three kinds of words when speaking - thinking, measured and selective. If you open your mouth, open your mouth, or even talk wildly, then you are the master of your words before you say it, and you are the master of your words after you say it, and it will be hard to recover.
      The greatest laziness in life is laissez faire. Completely by their own temperament, sooner or later they will pay the price.
    5. Kitsch, secularity and vulgarity are the "ecstasy soup" of self indulgence and degeneration
      Wealth and honor cannot be prostituted, poverty and baseness cannot be moved, and power cannot be subdued. This is called a great husband—— Mencius Teng Wengong II
      People can follow the vulgarity, but can not be kitsch. Kitsch is an act of pleasing, pleasing, catering and accommodating. It is the loss or abandonment of dignity. Kitsch people lack self thought and self reason and only know to drift with the tide. A person who has something to do is to follow the waves rather than follow the waves. He knows how to show kindness, but he will never just please.
      Secularity is some bad habits left on people. Greed for money, snobbery and forgetting righteousness for profit are all manifestations of secularity. In such a secular society, we should know worldly sophistication but not worldly. Although it is impossible to be detached from vulgarity, we should not be contaminated with worldly vulgarity.
    6. Discontent, shamelessness and fearlessness are the "pass" to defeat Maicheng
      A gentleman has three fears: fear of destiny, fear of adults and fear of the words of saints—— The Analects of Confucius Ji Shi
      We should be content. If we are not satisfied, we will pay too much attention to interests, and we will be anxious, crazy, resentful, and even unable to let go and lose balance for every disappointments. In reality, this loss is often the beginning of the transformation and decline of outlook on life and values.
      One can be ignorant, but not shameless. Ignorance is not terrible. As long as we strengthen learning, we will change from ignorance to "knowledge"; What is terrible is shamelessness, and what is more terrible is not knowing shame; Such a person can do anything without being ashamed.
      People should also understand fear and awe, know the scale of life and work, know where the bottom line is and what the boundary is, and understand that going out of bounds means going out and crossing the line is deviant.
    7. Blind, blind obedience and blind work are the "epitaph" of getting twice the result with half the effort
      Wise men plan according to the time, fools act against reason—— Fan of Southern Song Dynasty
      Being blind means that you have no direction and can't see the goal clearly. Blind people often have no number in mind; Blind obedience is the lack of independent opinion and backbone. People who follow blindly often drift with the tide and follow others; Blind work is to do things without rules and regulations and without reason. It often makes people act recklessly, takes a "deviant edge", and even moves against the trend and violates the law.
      People who blindly follow blindly can't do good or succeed. "Patting their head" is their habit, "patting their chest" is their hobby, "patting their ass" is their trick. Blind people must follow blindly and work blindly. Finally, they will be "busy" because of "blindness", resulting in a result of twice the result with half the effort or even nothing.
    8. Snobbery, utilitarianism and short-sightedness are short-sighted "self portraits"
      People value profits, honest people value their names, virtuous people value their aspirations, and saints value their talents—— Zhuangzi · deliberately
      "The poor live in a busy city, no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains", which is a true portrayal of the snob. It is a common fault of snobs to worship and grovel to those who have money, power and power, and despise alienation on the contrary. There are many snobbish people at all times and in all over the world. Such people may gain power for a while, but they will never gain power for a lifetime, and their end is often pathetic and regrettable.
      Snobbery comes from being too utilitarian. When you do anything, you calculate your personal interests and benefits clearly, and run for the benefits. A person who takes his fame and wealth too seriously, holds it too high and thinks too much is bound to pursue fame and wealth, be eager for quick success and instant benefit, become worldly sophistication, and even be unscrupulous, regardless of shame, no bottom line and no integrity.
      Snobbery, utilitarianism and instant benefits are all due to one "benefit". The "benefit" can be and can be said, but it must not be said in a big way. "Night talk around the stove" said that "the character is not high, always because a word of profit can not be broken", and the value of profit is not high. Too heavy on profits will be short-sighted and trapped by profits.
    9. Slackness, looseness and slackness are the "anesthetic" that goes its own way
      Firmness lies in exercise, and exercise lies in self-consciousness—— Mao Zedong
      Most of the slack is thought and psychology, spirit and emotion, showing inattention and weak willpower. If one inch is loose in thought, one foot will be loose in action. When a person's thinking is lax, he will loose his style, loose his behavior and slack his work.
      It is terrible to be used to freedom and carelessness. It will make people indifferent and indifferent, go their own way and do whatever they want, lack a string in their mind and strength in their body. People need a kind of spirit and spirit, "sailing against the current, don't advance or retreat", a trace of relaxation and retreat will flow thousands of miles.
    10. Sleek, slick and cunning are the "Mask" of dealing with people
      Clearing the heart is the root cause, and straightness is the body strategy—— Bao Zheng's appendix to the Ming engraved Edition
      Saying that people are indifferent, don't know what to say about things, and don't say anything about things is a smooth and cunning portrayal of reality. This kind of person is called a "veteran" in society.
      It seems reasonable and understandable that people can achieve the effect of self-protection by being smooth and harmless to others. However, many people regard sleek as the golden mean, and even regard sleek as the standard. They have become a wall riding school that meets the needs of both sides. They are not ashamed, but proud, not disciplined, but happy. This has reversed right and wrong, confused right and wrong, blurred good and bad, and ruined the atmosphere.
      Sleek and slick are twin brothers. Slick people are glib, especially good at talking. They appear slick, unfounded and informal, giving people a sense of frivolity and disgusting. Cunning goes a step further. It is an extreme of smoothness. It is crafty, unreliable, and sinister and treacherous.
      Don't be smooth and cunning. You think you are smart, but you miss your life. You think you are right and left, but you are not human. If you are smart, you will be mistaken by smart.
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