From small to large, we were taught, "how we want to do, how we can't do, if we don't follow the right path, we are doomed to failure." This is the so-called success theory summarized by our predecessors. Our predecessors use this theory to spur our growth.
Once upon a time, I came out in such an environment. The school teachers told us to study hard, attend classes on time, have ideals, and listen to the teachers and parents, so that we can be happy and succeed. Looking back at the moment, I still remember the painstaking efforts of high school teachers on the podium more than ten years ago. I also remember that junior high school teachers punished me for clearing the snow and making me stop because I was naughty. They all wanted to make us successful and happy years later.
But do we feel happiness deeply? It seems not. Instead, more and more people feel that I am not happy enough. CCTV once did a boring roadside talk show and asked an old man if he was happy. The uncle said, "my name is Zeng, not Fu." This is actually an irony. I have forgotten what the word "happiness" is.
In fact, in my opinion, success and happiness do not depend on how many things you have done right in life, but on how many times you have stood up from your failures in life.
In 2004, I graduated from college. Under the persuasion of my parents, I still didn't want to take the postgraduate exam. I think the society is so big, and I want to work hard. I have a cavity of blood, I have a cavity of passion, and the society can do anything for me! After looking for a job and asking about the salary, I found that I was wrong. So much blood and passion is worth 1800 yuan a month. You can't even pay taxes. My parents were worried, and I was also angry, but the depressed mood did not last long. I told my parents that I would resign and take the postgraduate examination next year. My parents were very nervous and told me to make a careful decision. If you don't pass the exam, it will be very difficult for you to find a job again. I understand my parents' worries and know my desperate decision, but I don't recognize my current failure, don't come out resolutely, and don't break through those so-called worries. Why can I laugh more happily after three years.
In the past 10 years, I encountered my first failure in my career. Because I didn't pay attention to self-management and asked for instructions from leaders in advance, I was punished by the company at the second level. At that time, I was so unruly that I finally ate the bitter fruit. Behind the bitter fruit was the darkness you could never understand under the sun. Because of this second level punishment, I experienced hardships in my career development in the next five years. Because of the second level punishment record, I missed several opportunities for promotion, and I almost missed the job transfer opportunities that were very important for my career transition; I also missed the opportunity to appear in the company's glorious history of 20 years, 20 people and 20 events. Dad told me to keep a low profile and lick the wound in the corner. Don't let others laugh at it. But I feel that I have come out of this failure. I can say to yesterday's me bravely: failure is not terrible, and it is terrible not to stand up.
I was positive. Because of this failure in my career path, I thought about my social skills for the first time. It made me think for a long time and continue to improve; I have also found the voice from the bottom of my heart, leading myself to the career direction suitable for me, and thus I have known a broader world; Therefore, I have a habit of thinking and summarizing constantly. I have a very tacit understanding with the company's publicity department. Although I regret that I have not had the opportunity to select 20 people and 20 events in 20 years, I am honored to be invited by the organizing group to give comments and comments, and leave my name on the precious album.
Life is not made up of success over and over again. That is too false, and you will not realize the deep joy of success after failure. The understanding of life, the desire for success, the light understanding, the longing for life and the definition of happiness will become common and profound because of your perspective after stepping out of the shadow.
The reason for this passage is that I have seen many stronger friends than I have. They rolled through the rugged road with determination. Now their understanding of happiness is so profound and their smiles are so gratifying that I have the impulse to write this passage.
Be brave and walk out of failure is the success above success.