Most of the good things in life are fleeting. Enjoy them, taste them, be kind to everyone around you, and don't waste your time waiting for the "perfect ending" of all the problems.
Save money and enjoy it after retirement. As a result, after retirement, because of old age, poor health and inconvenient movement, I can't go anywhere. Save the money and wait for the pension. As a result, when the children grow up, they want to study abroad, start a business, spend money to marry a wife, and their pension will be taken away.
When you have enough ability to treat yourself well, do it immediately. Sometimes the elderly can't do what middle-aged or young people can do. Age and health are a major factor. A child should tell him from an early age that he should raise you to high school and be self reliant after college. He should study abroad, start a business and marry a wife. He should think of his own way. He should leave more money and don't live for children. We all grow old too fast, but we are smart too late. A friend lost his wife last year. This sudden accident is really unacceptable, but death always comes like this. A friend said that his wife most wanted him to send flowers to her, but he thought it was too wasteful. He always said he would buy it next time. As a result, after her death, he decorated her mourning hall with flowers. Isn't that stupid?
Wait... Wait... It seems that all our lives are waiting.
"When I graduate from college, I will do what..." we said to ourselves.
"Wait until I buy a house!"
"When my youngest child gets married!"
"When I conclude this business!"
"When I die!"
Everyone is willing to sacrifice the present in exchange for the unknown waiting; Sacrifice the hard money of this life to buy the comfort of future generations.
In Taiwan, as long as you walk on the road with mountains, you can see everywhere that "farmhouses" become "fine houses" and "hillside land" become "spiritual pagodas". It's just for the sake of ensuring that you don't have to suffer any more after you die. Many people believe that we must wait until a certain time or after something is completed before taking action. I'll start exercising tomorrow; Tomorrow I will treat him better; We'll go out sometime next week; After retirement, we should enjoy it.
However, life is always changing and the environment is always unpredictable. In real life, all kinds of emergencies always emerge in endlessly. So, how do we face life? We don't have to wait for life to be perfect, or everything to be stable. We can start doing what we want to do now.
One can never predict the future, so don't delay the life you want and don't be stingy to express what you think, because life is only in a moment.
Remember, don't let yourself leave "it's too late" to hate. The dead cannot be traced, and the future is still unknown. The most precious "present" that needs to be mastered in real time is often missed in a blink of an eye.
Life is short and erratic. There is a little poem that says: high heaven and place, long life road; In the twinkling of an eye, there is a long twilight. It is Tao that makes up the fear that life is like sending, which is fleeting in the twinkling of an eye.
Many things have become old things before you know how to cherish them; There are many people who have become old people before you put your heart into them.
Regretful things happen again and again, but it is useless to regret "knowing how" later. The "time" has passed, and the person you remember has left you.
A Swedish proverb says, "we grow old too fast, but we become wise too late." Whether you notice it or not, life is always moving forward.
Life doesn't sell round-trip tickets, what you lose will never be obtained again. We hope to "wait until the convenient time to enjoy", we do not know how much possible happiness we have lost!
Don't wait for the day when you "can breathe a sigh of relief" or "the trouble is over". Most of the good things in life are fleeting. Enjoy them, taste them, be kind to everyone around you, and don't waste your time waiting for the "perfect ending" of all the problems.
To find the lost life, death may be free, but it has to pay the price of life.
Seize the moment, don't wait!