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I once had a colleague who was famous for being greedy for cheap. Go out and ride a shared bike. She will ask you to help sweep it; Go to the canteen for lunch, and she asks you to brush it; Even if she orders her own takeout, she will always find various reasons for you to pay for her.
I remember once, she bought something online and asked her to pay 59 yuan after express delivery. She said she didn't have money and borrowed money from a colleague to pay the express fee. But then she didn't take the initiative to return it, and people were embarrassed to ask her for it, so she forgot it with ease.
In fact, the amount she takes advantage of each time is not large, but it is often so. Over time, everyone will see her character. Some time ago, because of her poor work performance, the leader decided to conduct a public opinion survey on her. As a result, no one spoke well for her.
If a person has a problem with you, it may be personal resentment; But if everyone doesn't want to be close to you, you have to reflect on your own problems.
Soon after, she was dismissed. On the day she left, no one saw her off or said goodbye to her. Later, it was said that she complained that her colleagues fell into a well. But what she usually does has long been doomed to today's ending.
The more calculated you are, the easier it is to stumble. The more you dig a hole for others, the easier it is for yourself to fall into the hole. Those who try to get cheap will always suffer a heavy loss in the end.
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Friend L is selling fruit. Recently, his business is getting better and better.
His fruit is not the best and the price is not the cheapest, but many old customers volunteer to introduce new customers to him.
Because some stall owners like to steal less than two kilograms of fruit, especially for the elderly who are old, blind and unresponsive. But friends never do such things. Even in the face of children who don't know the scale, he will never charge a penny more and give a fruit less.
He will never do anything that shoddy. The grapes sold at 8 yuan per kilogram and the grapes sold at 5 yuan per kilogram will be clearly divided. However, some stall owners always want to mix the grapes sold for 5 yuan with the grapes sold for 8 yuan.
At first, other stall owners thought my friend was stupid. But no one is stupid. Some people do business with one hammer and knock you one stick at a time. But people who have been cheated usually don't take the initiative to give you a second chance to cheat him.
And some people do long-term business. Maybe for the first time, you don't find his advantages, but over time, you will eventually recognize the true and false.
Some people gain a temporary advantage because of their cunning. But some people have earned a steady stream of good luck because of their kindness.
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Some time ago, I went to customize the curtains. After looking at the two shops, their prices are similar.
The first boss strongly recommended to me that all curtains should be made into curtains, which is more beautiful.
But the second boss told me that only the living room and master bedroom need to be made into curtains, which can save money and simplicity is beauty. Decoration only needs to point to the end, not everything.
Later, according to the plan of the second boss, I not only saved more than 2000 yuan, but also achieved particularly good results. In fact, he clearly doesn't make money, but he said that everything should start from the needs of customers and can't be mercenary.
Later, I introduced him to several guests, and even recommended him to decorate the house. I didn't get any benefit from him, but felt that this man was trustworthy.
In fact, no matter what occupation, those who are truly respected, respected and able to go further must be kind people.
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In life, a kind person looks silly, but he is really smart; Seemingly confused, in fact, the most sober; Seemingly the least promising, in fact, there is often a bright future.
We all like to deal with kind-hearted people. Whether we are friends, lovers or neighbors, a kind-hearted person brings three points of happiness.
Often the most popular people are the most likely to attract good luck; And those who can get the support of noble people are often kind people.
Kindness seems to be a concession at a loss, but in fact it is to add luster to yourself. Because no one wants to stay with a haggard and resourceful person. Being kind, the more generous, tolerant, courteous and humble, the easier it is to let people take the initiative to benefit him. Because everyone knows that with such people, they will never suffer losses, and more will be the outcome of mutual benefit.
So, you see, the world is quietly rewarding those kind people!