It's better to be angry than to strive for success. Take the contempt of the other party for you as a driving force to make you upward. Make achievements, let them see, prove their views are wrong, and let them repent themselves. This is often more effective than rushing up by yourself.
Many young people can't stand being wronged. Once they feel that they have suffered a loss, it is easy to cause great emotional fluctuations. Therefore, some people will secretly complain, tell their grievances to their friends, and even psychologically start to reject the bully and swear not to have any contact with that person anymore. There are also some people who will rush up and argue with each other. They would rather fight, but also let the other party understand their dissatisfaction, let him see their strong protest, and let him know that he is not weak and deceptive.
In fact, the moment you rush forward to theory, you have lost a game in the chess game of life. How can people who live in a circle not have contradictions? He may look down on you and hurt you by talking, but you don't have to break your nose or scratch your face. It's better to be angry than to strive for success. Take the contempt of the other party for you as a driving force to make you upward. Make achievements, let them see, prove their views are wrong, and let them repent themselves. This is often more effective than rushing up by yourself.
Many people probably know that when Chen Luyu graduated and looked for a job, he had an interview with an airport radio station. When she appeared in front of the interviewer, the interviewer kept shaking his head, as if to say, how can such a thin and small image be the host? Chen Luyu understood the meaning of the other party, didn't say anything, and walked away silently. However, several years later, Luyu made a breakthrough in Phoenix Satellite TV with its unique hosting style.
Facing those who deny you or despise you, rushing to theory is undoubtedly the most unwise behavior. You might as well learn from Lu Yu and Zhou Xingchi. After being despised by others and receiving the cold reception of life, it's better to be angry than to be angry, and it's better to turn over than to turn over.
Most young people like to watch Stephen Chow's films and will be amazed by the funny route of Stephen Chow's films. However, Stephen Chow himself said that life begins with small people. Being humble is just the first lesson in life. Therefore, Zhang Shipu used these materials to write down the following contents:
No director valued his thin appearance, because the audience's flowers and applause were only dedicated to beauties and heroes. After being lost, he turned to be a children's program host for four years. He won the children's favor with his unique hosting style. But at that time, a reporter wrote a report on "Stephen Chow is only suitable for being a children's program host", satirizing him that he can only make faces and jump around blindly, and has no talent for acting in films at all. This report deeply stimulated Stephen Chow. He pasted the report on the wall and always reminded and encouraged himself to act in a decent film. Therefore, he embarked on the road of running a dragon suit again. Although he still had to endure cold eyes and shouting, he still played those small roles that flashed by, but he firmly grasped the opportunity of each performance and tried his best to show his most unique self. A year later, in 1987, he took part in the first drama "journey of life". Although he was almost a dragon, he finally had the space to fly. From then on, he began to deduce his life legend with the lowliness and kindness of a small man.
Everyone's life will have twists and turns. No one can say "the road of my life is flat". But how should you face your life? Facing those who deny you or despise you, rushing to theory is undoubtedly the most unwise behavior. You might as well learn from Lu Yu and Zhou Xingchi. After being despised by others and receiving the cold reception of life, it's better to be angry than to be angry, and it's better to turn over than to turn over.