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Chatting with friends, I saw a story that a person called everywhere to borrow money in order to test her friendship. As a result, life was delicious, and finally I felt very hurt.
A friend said she had a similar experience, a real experience. One day, she suddenly had to use money urgently, a large sum of money. I found my father and got 500000, but it's not enough. Call your classmates and friends everywhere. Anyway, anyone who thinks he can speak, and promise to pay it off in two days.
As a result, some people are obviously rich, but they won't even borrow any money. Of course, she promised immediately and transferred the money to her classmates without saying a word. In addition, she was not rich. She took out all her money and lent it to her friends. She also asked whether she needed it or not, and then asked her family to borrow it for her.
It is said that the money borrowed in the end was useless and was paid back the next day. But she said that from this matter, she saw who was worthy of deep friendship and who was not worthy of being serious.
Hearing this, I also think of one of my few experiences of borrowing money. It's also an urgent turnover, but it can definitely be paid off in full within a week or two. I have always been thin skinned. I also made a lot of calls. The friend I have known since reading has a well-off family condition, but he said he had nothing to lend me. Even the two cousins in business have two different attitudes. One is that they can lend me only 10000 yuan at most, and the other is how much you want. He lends me the largest cash flow in his hand.
I have no bad ideas about people who don't lend me money. But I was deeply moved by the cousin who was willing to give out the most cash flow. He also half joked that I believe what you said, I can pay it back as soon as possible, because the money for doing business is constantly used.
In fact, the money was not borrowed in the end, because the problem was solved in time.
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There was a colleague who quarreled with his boyfriend and ran away from home. He called me to borrow money and said he didn't have cash at the moment. He wanted to borrow a room in a hotel for one night. I asked her to come to my house, but she refused. I've been to my classmate's house several times before. I'm very sorry.
After talking about this, someone asked me, what would happen if you wanted to run away from home? I also smiled and said, of course, I went to the hotel to open a room. The man continued to ask, is there anyone in this city willing to take you in at any time? I thought hard for a long time, but I couldn't think of such a person. Although there are classmates, friends and relatives. But it seems that there is no place so close that I can go without fear and calm. At that moment, I suddenly felt so sad.
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As you get older, you seem to have fewer and fewer friends to make. When I was a teenager, I also shed tears for the friendship in the cold war. Later, I was also indignant that my friend was not so loyal to her. Even, I also lamented that I was sincere to others, but others never took me seriously.
There is not a saying on the Internet that it is friendship. If you are serious, it will hurt people more than love. Although I personally think it's not that exaggerated at my age, and I still think love is more destructive to me (well, I admit I'm a little heavy on color than friends), in fact, friendship has never been light in my mind.
I don't know if it's Virgo's pickiness. There aren't many people I put into my heart a little. Occasionally, if the other person hurts my feeling, he will push others out of my heart a little more. Always seems to keep a little distance from others. Therefore, for me, there are few people who can rely on when they are wronged, be presumptuous when they are wronged, and call for help when they are in critical danger.
Sometimes there is a strong sense of powerlessness about friendship. I wonder if there is anyone in this city who can take you in at any time?