If he shows the following behaviors, it can only show that he doesn’t like you so much.

Fromm said:

“Loving someone is not just an emotion, it is a decision, a judgment and a commitment.”

If he just says he loves you, but his actions are thousands of miles away from the word love. He is unwilling to promise you and doesn’t bring you any sense of security, it proves that he doesn’t like you at all.

The sense of security comes from being preferred. Whether a man loves you or not, in fact, his heart knows. There are many reasons for not loving in the world, and there is always only one performance of love, that is, he wants to be with you, and that person can only be you.

If you start to doubt his sincerity, if you don’t get a response to his thousands of questions, if he shows the following behaviors, it can only show that he doesn’t like you so much.

01

Only ambiguous with you, but never say together

He will talk to you every night and say he misses you very much; He will also agree to your invitation and accompany you out.

But later you found that he never responded positively to the emotional problems you mentioned. In places with many people, he won’t have any physical contact with you.

Whenever you need him, he won’t show up once.

He will joke with other girls and praise her for her beauty under the selfie of other girls. The tenderness in his eyes doesn’t just belong to you.

You are obviously very sad, but when you open the dialog box to question him, you suddenly lose your courage and don’t know what kind of identity to ask.

The vinegar you are not qualified to eat is so sour.

In fact, you know, if a boy really likes you, he will be eager to possess you and won’t make another girl laugh.

He will put your feelings first, want to love you well, and don’t be willing to treat you cold and hot.

Those who tease don’t like it, but those who really like it are cautious.

02

Don’t introduce you to his relatives and friends

Love is always possession and jealousy. If you hold my hand at the beginning, I don’t want you to look at other girls. I want to be the only protagonist in your life and tell the world that you are also my only protagonist.

If he never introduces you to his friends, takes you to his party, or introduces you to his family, without exception, he doesn’t like you so much. Maybe in the eyes of his friends, he has changed many girlfriends.

If you really love someone, in fact, you want to announce his existence and show off your love with the whole world at the first time. You want to be tired of being together all day and share the joy of love with the people around you. Other heterosexuals are just passers-by in your eyes.

If you can’t do this, there is only one reason, that is, you don’t like it so much.

What is love? Even if you enter my life, I also participate in every important occasion of you.

03

I’m impatient with you and don’t care about your emotions

When we first got together, he was distressed when you frowned. Later, even if you cried red eyes, he didn’t care.

There was no longer concern in his eyes, only impatience. Even scold you loudly, turn around and leave you where you are.

In the face of your grievances, he is not only indifferent, but also always perfunctory you with “if you think so, I can’t help it”.

When he was ill, you would buy medicine for him, but when it was sent downstairs, you had to say: can’t you bring it up?

You will still joke with him and try to make him happy, but he will only coldly leave one sentence: can you leave me alone?

You start to feel insecure and always ask him if he still loves you, but his answer is: forget it, I’m so tired.

He complains about your bad temper. Your small emotions will make him irritable, but your kindness to him has become a burden at the moment.

After getting his love, experiencing his considerate and gentle, and seeing the way he loves you, I finally understand that he doesn’t like you.

04

I don’t want to give you any intimate contact except going to bed

More than one friend who has been in love for many times told me that the most direct manifestation of a man’s dislike for you is that he is no longer willing to kiss you. When you kiss him on your own initiative, he will try to avoid it or find many reasons to excuse himself:

“I caught a cold so as not to infect you”, “I smoked and my mouth smelled”.

In addition, even hugging has become perfunctory and devoid of warmth. Once, when hugging, I would try my best to hold you tight and wish to be integrated with you, but now hugging is limited to a ceremony; When shopping, you no longer take the initiative to hold your hand;

After going to bed, I don’t hold you to sleep as before, but I fall asleep with my back to you for three or two seconds, as if your existence is just a little air around me, a little more and a little less.

Some people say that men are lower body animals and always try to get women’s cheap. In fact, it’s not. Men are the same as women. Once he doesn’t like each other, he will appear abrupt and strange even touching them.

05

Don’t talk about marriage with you and muddle along

The most important thing is that he doesn’t want to marry you.

Although it has been said that “all love without the purpose of marriage is playing hooligans” for a long time, if he really loves you, he will plan their future and set goals to fight for it.

Her friend broke up with her boyfriend who had been dating her for two years because her parents were old and wanted to see them get married as soon as possible. Every time she talked about the topic of marriage with her boyfriend, his boyfriend always pretended to be innocent and gave reasons every time:

“We are still young. Don’t worry. Wait a few more years.”.

But year after year, my friend finally saved enough disappointment and broke up with him.

Unfortunately, a year later, she heard the news that he was reunited with his ex girlfriend and was about to get married.

You see, who doesn’t want to lead his beloved into the palace of marriage and proudly say those promises about life in front of those traditional etiquette and closest relatives and friends.

06

If you are always worried about gain and loss, always full of doubt and anxiety about him, and always can’t see the hope of two people in the future, then you don’t have to make excuses for him. He just doesn’t like it very much