I always thought that my wife had one big flaw—simple-minded.
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How much does it take to live at home? However, no matter what, no matter how difficult, troublesome or unbearable things are, the wife doesn't know how to worry, she doesn't know how to worry, she doesn't know how to think about it. Big dawn. When you have enough energy, what to do when you wake up the next day.
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I can't do it anymore. I often think that I have a brain, and I like to think, I like to think before and after, and I like to think a lot. So, if something happens, I can't sleep, I turn over and think about it again, turn over and think again, toss and turn. In this regard, there is even a little self-appreciation: to be a person is not to be simple-minded, but to have ideas. However, after thinking about it, you add to your troubles and exhaust your energy, so what should you do the next day?
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So, I often think to myself: Could it be that we should be simple-minded in the face of life?
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That day, I remembered an interesting test. The title says: An airplane is carrying three outstanding scientists, one is a physicist, one is a biologist, and the other is a medical scientist. Unexpectedly, the plane malfunctioned. In order to avoid the crash of the plane, in order to reduce the weight, one of the three people had to be dropped. Which one should I throw down? The test group received thousands of answers, some of which were analyzed and argued in a row, and some even did not know which one to choose. In the end, the special prize for the test was awarded to a child, and everyone was shocked. It turns out that the child's answer is the simplest and most common sense: throw whoever is the fattest. You see, sometimes simplicity becomes a kind of wisdom of life?
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Yes, you can't be simple-minded in doing scholarship, and you can't be simple-minded in researching problems. However, life is not about learning, and life is not about research. In life, there is no need for so many analyses of right and wrong, no need for so many pros and cons arguments, and no need for so many pros and cons. For example, mathematics is not simple, but when a brother settles accounts and separates his family, it should be simple, and a word "let" is enough; for example, genetics is not simple, but when a child has a genetic disease, it should be simple, a word of "love" Words are enough; for example, psychology is not simple, but when you are unbalanced in your heart, you should be simple, and the word "put" is enough...
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Some people feel that their daily life is overwhelmed and there is no joy at all. So he went to consult a wise and respected philosopher. The philosopher handed him a basket and said, "Please carry it on the road. Every time you take a step, pick up a stone from the side of the road and put it in it." See what happens? Although the man had doubts, he complied. But just after walking a short distance, he felt that the burden was too heavy to bear, because the basket was already full of heavy stones. At this time, the sage helped him to take out the stones from the basket one by one, and said, "This is fame, this is Lilu, this is chicken intestines, this is a lot of calculation... After all the stones in the basket are thrown away, the Talents find ease and happiness.
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This is letting go, this is simplicity, and this is the great wisdom of life.
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As a result, I became more and more convinced that the so-called big disadvantage of my wife in the past was actually a big advantage. I thought I was very diligent in my practice, but there were many things in my heart that were still tangled and tangled again and again, and it took a lot of effort before I let go. Where's the wife? People don't need to let go at all. Because of the things you are entangled in your heart, people don't take it to heart at all. So simple for decades, what is the result? From a physical point of view, everything in our family is of course owned by the husband and wife. The food, clothing, housing and transportation are getting better and better, and the luck of others is no less than mine. More importantly, from the heart, people live their lives with peace of mind, peace of mind, no worries, and no entanglement in their hearts. How rare is this good luck? So simple-minded, can you say it's not a big plus? With such a role model by your side, can you see Xian Siqi? So, slowly I found myself making progress too - learning to be "simple-minded" many times.
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Simplicity is the great wisdom of life. Home is like this, life is like this, life is like this.