A relationship should be between two people, not the whole world.
May 3rd, 2023

Hey everyone, welcome back to my blog! Today I want to talk about something that has been on my mind for a while: relationships. Specifically, why I think a relationship should be between two people, not the whole world.

You see, I've noticed a trend lately where some couples feel the need to share every single detail of their relationship on social media. They post pictures of their dates, their gifts, their fights, their make-ups, their break-ups... you name it, they share it. And while I'm all for being open and honest, I can't help but wonder: is this really healthy?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that you should keep your relationship a secret or hide it from your friends and family. Of course not! It's natural and normal to want to celebrate your love and happiness with the people who care about you. But there's a difference between sharing and oversharing, and I think some couples cross that line.

Why do I think that? Well, for one thing, I think that sharing too much of your relationship online can put unnecessary pressure on both of you. You might feel like you have to live up to a certain image or expectation that you've created online. You might feel like you have to compete with other couples or prove something to your followers. You might feel like you have to constantly update your status or post new content to keep your audience interested. And that can take a toll on your relationship.

For another thing, I think that sharing too much of your relationship online can expose you to unwanted opinions and judgments from others. You might get comments or messages from people who don't know you or your partner, who don't understand your situation or your feelings, who don't have your best interests at heart. They might criticize you, mock you, advise you, or even try to interfere with your relationship. And that can cause a lot of stress and drama.

And finally, I think that sharing too much of your relationship online can take away from the intimacy and privacy that you and your partner deserve. You might lose sight of what really matters in your relationship: the connection and communication between the two of you. You might forget to enjoy the moments that you have together, without worrying about capturing them for others to see. You might miss out on the opportunity to grow and learn from each other, without being influenced by outside factors.

So what do I suggest? Well, I suggest that you find a balance between sharing and keeping things private in your relationship. Of course, this is up to you and your partner to decide what works best for you. But here are some tips that might help:

  • Before you post something online, ask yourself: why am I posting this? Is it because I want to share something meaningful or positive with my loved ones? Or is it because I want to impress someone or get attention? Be honest with yourself and your motives.

  • Before you post something online, ask yourself: how will this affect my partner? Is it something that they are comfortable with me sharing? Is it something that they would appreciate or enjoy seeing? Have I asked for their consent or opinion? Be respectful of your partner and their feelings.

  • Before you post something online, ask yourself: how will this affect our relationship? Is it something that will bring us closer or push us apart? Is it something that will enhance our communication or distract us from it? Is it something that will strengthen our bond or weaken it? Be mindful of your relationship and its health.

I hope this blog post has given you some food for thought and some helpful tips on how to balance sharing and privacy in your relationship. Remember, a relationship should be between two people, not the whole world. Thanks for reading and see you next time!

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