I had this idea 2019, but I didn’t have the courage to put that into writing.
Instead mentioned something slightly different, also controversial:
I was looking at the legalities quite recently too. I was researching how to make a bigger impact through collaborative effort:
Many people set themselves o fire: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-immolation
Up to 14 years in prison: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/euthanasia-and-assisted-suicide
But I will accomplish more in life by staying alive. Actually I have a long list of reasons justifying staying alive but the point remains valid: so much press, media, attention.
Audience.
Social media algorithms.
The “hacker mindset” approach it to connect with someone important at Twitter / Instagram / TikTok and for the sake of humanity change the default algorithm, change the metrics, optimise for wellbeing as opposed to time on site.
I have loads of great stories to tell. Checkm my in promptu speech from a charity event.
Abuse perpetrated against men does not receive enough attention and I totally understand why. It’s exhausting just to think about it, taking action can have a negative repercussions too, bearing into account wider family ecosystem.
At the same time, someone has to do, it may as well be me. I really wish I was promoting other causes, such as climate change. System change not climate change, but as they say: you want to change the world, start from yourself.
Summary of my situation: family law. Bullshit courts. Toxic system. A criminal framework of the law would be awesome, it offer much better standard of evidence. I was looking for criminal stuff that could allow to land in the ⚖️ ASAP. Unfortunately, not so easy and not so obvious how to accomplish it:
Maybe this? Now intention (thoughtcrime) is illegal, that would be entertaining to discuss on courts:
At the same theme, a better approach could be to minimise engagement with the toxic system. Below is a review of a complaint, they gave me 8 months timeline. In general, when trying to dig to the bottom of things, even more BS surfaces, never ending story.
I really wish I knew how to better engage with the legal system. Or disengage, withdraw, leave the drama behind. But will I regret later on? And even if I make a decision to go ALL THE WAY, without support network I might get overwhelmed, scared, frightened, worried and make already bad situation even worse.
I often advocate balanced approach, way of the middle. Here it does not work, it’s has to be one way or another: disengage or go ALL THE WAY. My plan is to write to court and other interesting parties showcasing the current situation in an accurate, truthful, detailed way. And I will be honest… This city recently got my attention:
Another option:
Time will tell.
Year after year I was promising myself “last winter in the UK” and maybe finally I will have the courage and capacity to pull it off.
In the meanwhile, as a strategy to wrap things properly, need to describe situation properly and ask the court and other parties involved what to do with it.
Think in terms of “personal metacrisis” with multiple issues affecting each other.
