The essence of inferiority complex
July 9th, 2022

Everyone feels inferior. There are about two kinds of processes to form inferiority complex: first, in the process of comparing with adults in childhood, they have less profound experience than adults; Coupled with some environments that are not conducive to growth, the state of inferiority may solidify in the heart. Second, everyone knows his own things better than others. In his own vision, the mysterious side is unconsciously endowed with some equally mysterious power or aura.
Inferiority comes from the aggressiveness of all creatures. This aggressive way of presentation is to compare with others at the psychological and behavioral levels from time to time and everywhere. Comparison is competition, which means attacking others intellectually and physically.
The attack of the inferiors is mostly done in their hearts. In the face of a hypothetical competitor, the offensive automatic launch. If the opponent appears to be stronger than himself, the aggressiveness will soon turn towards him, and there will be the inner world of people with low self-esteem: self blame, depression, anxiety or fear. This complex and rapid process is usually invisible to inferiors and others.
On the surface, inferiority complex is to look down on yourself. However, if a person never looks down on others after comparing himself with others, he will not look down on himself after comparison. In other words, without attacking others, there will be no result of inferior skills and inferiority after failure.
Having a little inferiority complex is not a big problem. Excessive inferiority may have a negative impact on all aspects of life. The external manifestation of excessive inferiority complex can be completely opposite. Some people with low self-esteem make no secret of their low self-esteem and often show weakness and timidity in their words and deeds; Others with low self-esteem "deceive themselves", but their external manifestation is complacency, arrogance and self-confidence.
Dealing with people with excessive inferiority complex is a dangerous thing. Because their great aggressiveness does not disappear, but turns to themselves. Once the opportunity comes, these aggressiveness will attack others in unexpected ways. We see the fact that some people feel inferior to the extent that they are often bullied, and when they can't bear to fight back, it is usually "a blockbuster"
The performance of inward aggression, or inferiority complex, proves that this person's personality level has developed to a very high stage. Comparatively speaking, people who always release their original aggression are at a lower stage of psychological development. An extreme example is antisocial personality. They constantly attack others and society, cross the boundaries of the law, and are often punished by the law.
A graduate student from a famous university told me how inferior he was. Specifically, I'm not satisfied with everything about myself, including appearance, figure, intelligence, performance, etc., and I also use a lot of sharp derogatory words for myself, which makes me feel heartache for him. Once, I said to him with emotion, "you really look down on others." At that time, he was very surprised. A few months later, he told me that he went back to carefully understand the meaning of this sentence and began to learn to look down on or appreciate others. The miraculous effect was that slowly he forgot his inferiority complex.
Everyone is a unique creation of nature, so everyone doesn't have to feel inferior. This sentence is equivalent to saying: everyone doesn't have to look down on himself by looking down on others. Heaven is on earth, and it will not stint to give those who lift others the power to lift themselves.

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