The career is very long. For an enterprise, it needs you to become a professional, but from the perspective of career development, you need to become a versatile person to adapt to social changes. There are many bad habits that hinder you from becoming a versatile person. Sometimes we like to pursue advantages and avoid disadvantages. Procrastination makes it difficult to achieve our goals. From now on, you should try to find all kinds of environments and habits that make you uncomfortable. Don't be afraid of pain. With the emergence of pain, there will be room for growth.
There are two kinds of people in this world, one is the strong, the other is the weak. The strong find their own discomfort, the weak find their own comfort. If you want to become stronger, you must learn the necessary skill of the strong, that is to make discomfort comfortable.
If you learn this skill, you can do many things, such as overcoming procrastination, fitness, learning new languages, exploring the unknown, and so on. But many people tend to avoid this kind of discomfort. After all, nothing is simple. They need to make a lot of efforts, endure a lot of pain, and even make themselves black and blue.
I used to think we should make ourselves comfortable, but later I realized that some discomfort is sometimes not a bad thing. In fact, you can learn to enjoy this discomfort. For example, I do some strength training every day. Although this discomfort is not serious enough to annoy me, people are like this. We can always find excuses to avoid difficulties. I make a plan form to let this discomfort participate in my life and form a habit. Every time I finish 15 pull ups, I will write 15 in the pull up column. I will change new paper every month and summarize the situation of last month. Inadvertently, I have done 1000 pull ups in a few months.
I found that anything that is a little uncomfortable can be trained. We can turn an uncomfortable thing into a habit, and then you can't leave it. I think this little pain is actually a spice in ordinary life. The cause of discomfort becomes comfortable, and good habits are formed in this way.
The specific methods are as follows:
Find something you want to do. It will make you a little uncomfortable, but you will gain a lot after it is done. For example: fitness.
You can break it down into 1000 separate events, and make sure that each event is within the discomfort level you can tolerate. You can test your tolerance to the best of your ability, and then subtract 20% from this value. For example, if I want to do 10000 pull ups, I will divide them into 1000, that is, 10 at a time.
Start doing it, and don't force yourself to challenge it as a pleasure. As your ability increases, gradually increase the weight. For example, after one month, you can achieve 15, and after three months, you can achieve 25. So, 10000 seems to take 1000 days to complete, in fact, you may have finished it in 9 months.
The essence of this method is to decompose a great pain into 1000 small discomfort, then integrate it into daily life, cultivate it into a habit, and turn discomfort into comfort.
We can improve our ability, change some bad habits and cultivate some good habits through the above methods.