1、 I don't want to
The reason why you don't want to do it is that you haven't reached the end of the mountain for the time being, and you don't have to do it. You still have a choice to make, there is room for maneuver, and you can make choices according to your own wishes. The reason why you don't want to do it is because you are afraid of the whole seemingly difficult process and have no confidence in the possible results.
But not every ideal result can have an attractive opportunity at the beginning. You can see the future at a glance, and then put all your eggs in one basket. The same is true of opportunities. When they first appear around you, they are usually far from as beautiful as you think. They are like a piece of rough jade. Only when they are carefully carved can they show their luster.
In discovering beautiful things, many people only look at the surface and use perceptual thinking to select. We are always used to having a great purpose before we pay and invest. We do not do anything that is not good or that has little return, but we often lose the insight to see the essence through the phenomenon.
Laziness is the poison of life and the gene of failure. No one wants to bite the hard bone, but life is not picky for you, and failure and suffering will not wait for you to knock when you are ready. You don't want to do it. There are many people who want to do it. When you want to do it, they have already done it. You don't need to do it. There are many things that you don't want to do. Everyone has their own negative feelings of fear of difficulties, but don't want to do it doesn't mean you don't have to do it forever.
2、 I had no idea
Unexpectedly, it is probably your excuse for your failure and your excuse for all imperfections. There are still a few things in Baimi. There are always many things you can't imagine, but nothing will happen or not happen because you can't imagine.
For the same event, you didn't expect it to succeed, so you can't do your best; You didn't expect it to fail, so you are more likely to take chances. You take "unexpected" as the reason for success, and attribute all the occasional and inevitable connections to luck.
Unexpectedly, it is impossible to do it, let alone do it well. No one can predict the future, and no one can control the present. There are many unexpected things. You can't imagine the unexpected benefits brought by the completion of the set goals, let alone the unpredictable risks associated with each link. You can't think of it, but someone always wants it and does it well. Things are in constant motion and change, and any opportunity is left to the resourceful and prepared mind. When you really think of it one day, the opportunity may no longer favor you.
When looking at problems, some people like to observe the surface of things and make analysis and judgment based on experience; Some people pry into the essence and go deep into its marrow. Even though things are ever-changing, only through careful consideration and implementation of future decisions can we have more possibilities to achieve.
3、 I tried my best
The reason why you feel like doing your best is that you feel sorry for yourself and moved by yourself in the face of the established results; It is your psychological state of self satisfaction by comparing your current results with your previous achievements. But perhaps the source of this sense of satisfaction is that if you take a few more steps than before, increase a few percentage points, lift more weight and make more efforts, you will already be overwhelmed and can't bear to add weight.
The greatest potential of a person is to discover another new self in constant transcendence. If you don't dare to beat yourself and don't break the limit, you will never know how much energy you have. If you are blindly satisfied with the status quo, you will easily be defeated by reality.
What's more, in this predatory society, it doesn't mean that if you try your best, you can have plenty of food and clothing and rest easy; It doesn't mean that if you try your best, you can avoid responsibility and get everyone's understanding. People who are better than you are trying their best to catch up, and people who are better than you are also trying to persist. You will not be eliminated unless you keep forging ahead and surpassing. Otherwise, we will be beaten if we lag behind. This is an indisputable truth.
Trying hard is not equal to doing your best. Maybe you still have unknown potential waiting to burst out. You need to find a flowing outlet for it. Success always belongs to people who strive for self-improvement. If you do more, your life may be different.
4、 It's impossible
The reason why you feel impossible is that you lack self-confidence, blindly defend yourself, and underestimate your energy and value. This is your arbitrary positioning. Before you put it into practice, you will be crushed by your own will.
Such people have pure motivation when they are in trouble. They only fight with preparation and confidence. They always refuse to take risks. They never dare to try easily and dare not challenge themselves. Refusal means that you will lose more opportunities. If you dare not turn the "impossible" into "possible", restrictions are everywhere. Therefore, your life can only be limited to the height of self judgment, and you will never be able to jump.
If you want to reach a higher position, you should have greater ambition and perseverance. There is no physical difference between people. They are all over a hundred kilograms of meat. They are biologically the same. The difference is in the soul. How big your spiritual world is, how broad your vision is, and how broad your life is. The boundary of a person's career lies in his heart. If you want to ensure the continuous growth of the boundary of your career, you must expand the boundary of your soul.
The stage is as big as the heart. There are not so many impossibilities in life. Self confidence creates miracles. If you want to succeed, you must have an undefended mind and bravely make every "impossible" possible. Then the perfect life "possible" belongs to you.
5、 No one helped me
The reason why you feel isolated is mostly the result of your own life management. Some people find their way from one side to the other, and they are all powerful. Some people walk with difficulty and run into a wall everywhere. This is the projection of your self-worth on the social stage, reflected in your personality charm.
It is a mutual principle and an emotional bond between people to give back the love of others. No one was born with you as the center, only to help you; And no one will take the trouble to be your Savior, except your parents.
So if someone is willing to help you, it is a blessing of care; Even if there is no one to help, it is your duty. You don't have to complain about it. This is not the root cause of failure. There are many factors for success. It is not that people lose faith and give up their pursuit without help. If no one helps you, you can also learn to enrich yourself, enrich your heart, improve your ability and realize the odds of winning.
There are many roads in life, and many roads are only suitable for you. Everything can only be accomplished by cooperating with others. Such people are not mature. Only by pursuing not to be attached to anyone can you get freedom in the true sense.
At any time when there is no way to go, you can still trust your strength without help. Just like wearing a life buoy, you will never learn to swim; Only by breaking free of the reins can a horse gallop thousands of miles.
6、 It's none of my business
In the face of punishment for mistakes and responsibility, in order to avoid possible risks and avoid unnecessary relationships, we often become cowardly and indifferent. We always like to use the sentence "it's none of my business" to try to get rid of the relationship and let others become scapegoats. But at the time of harvest, reward and reward based on merit, you can always sharpen your head. Even for small profits, you should be righteous and stand up as a "hero".
In the real society we live in, there is no clear boundary. As an independent individual in a social group, your existence is always inextricably linked with your surrounding environment. You should believe that all the people you meet are due arrangements, and your destiny is also in them. There will always be a change and transcendence, starting from the current situation. Therefore, you can not be short-sighted, easily refuse anyone's request, and cut off your own way back.
Every inch has its advantages. Everyone should depend on the outside world to survive. Helping others is a virtue of kindness, and your path will be widened in good deeds. In the face of the law of constant movement and development, you have to learn to bow your head, but those selfish and narrow-minded in the past will only make you have no way to go.
Therefore, those who can achieve great things must be brave and responsible; A man with his hands in his pockets will never climb the ladder of success.