What kind of social circle greatly affects what kind of person you become. If I heard this sentence in the past, I will refute it, because that's right. I'm still naive and firmly believe that what a person wants to be is only related to his own beliefs and has nothing to do with others.
I didn't understand this sentence until I went to college.
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Because of my poor grades, I just went to a college. As you know, compared with the requirements of undergraduate schools for students, the requirements for college students are simply too low to be lower. English doesn't need to pass CET-4 or CET-6. Putonghua only needs CET-2 B, and elective courses are also very simple.
Everything is too easy to get, and gradually, they lose their original fighting spirit.
If everyone is like this, you will have an excuse for laziness.
Suddenly one day, you want to take CET-4, so you start reciting words and reading desperately. But there are always oneortwo people around us who say, "we don't have to pass CET-4 to graduate. Why are we so serious? And you don't go abroad, so you don't have to work so hard."
As soon as the morale came up, it was convinced by what sounded reasonable but actually all perverse. Besides, the students in the dormitory either stay in bed and watch movies, or go shopping or date. You're the only one who's studying, but you're a stranger.
There is no goal of learning. Day by day, before we wake up, the graduation alarm bell sounded off guard.
We still haven't passed CET-4. We all graduated and speak Mandarin with a strong accent. Except shopping on the computer, chatting, watching movies, any PS and excel seem not to be very good. Then you will find that in recent years, you have degenerated except that you have gained a lot of fat.
Many times, what affects us is not how awesome the school is and how excellent the environment is, but how hard and progressive the people who become classmates with you.
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Every day after work, Songsong takes an hour to run in the gym and teaches himself English when he comes home.
When she told me, I couldn't understand. Why do you have to learn English after one year of graduation? She is more diligent than in school. You know, her English level is half as good as mine. Basically, if you can talk to foreigners, you can hide.
Later, she said that she made an appointment with a very good colleague to travel to Southeast Asia next year. In view of their poor English, she decided to study by herself and learn faster than anyone else.
As for running, I ran with her in the playground for a while.
But now, she has lost a lot of weight and has refined an arrogant vest thread.
Songsong said that at the beginning, she thought she couldn't do it, but she saw an aunt in the gym in her 50s who insisted on practicing yoga every day. She felt that most people could do it older than herself. Why couldn't she?
Later, Songsong had a good chat with the aunt, and naturally became friends. They worked together in the gym every day.
Before you know it, the fat song is gone.
"In fact, I'm also surprised by such a change. People are really strange. When you see the efforts of people around you, you don't dare to relax at all. On the contrary, if you are surrounded by lazy people, it's difficult for you to be unique and progressive. Therefore, I believe that what kind of friends you make affects what kind of person you become to a certain extent." One day, song song told me with feeling.
The so-called "those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black" probably has some truth! What kind of person you want to be, you have to enter what kind of communication circle. Everyone is imperceptibly influencing each other. Maybe one day, you will suddenly find that you have become such a good you, no longer lazy, no longer give up and no longer lose confidence.