Let me tell you a story first:
It is said that a large company is really a big company. The company has an organization department, which is specially responsible for the appointment of people in important positions of the company.
Due to the fierce market competition, a business unit needs to appoint a general manager. There are two candidates. The boss thinks both of them have good abilities, but he is not sure. Therefore, the organization department set up an investigation link and organized a strategy meeting. The whole process was photographed and videotaped. It held meetings during the day and played cards at night. Both candidates participated.
The daytime meeting is very important, but for the two candidates, the more important link is playing cards at night, and the boss also participates.
One of the candidates, who played cards carefully and did not fight uncertain battles, won a lot in the whole game.
Another candidate, with average skills but great courage, dared to take risks and made decisive moves, but he didn't lose or win in the end.
After the meeting, the boss of the company discussed with several members of the organization department and watched some card playing videos. Everyone had a very consistent attitude and determined the candidate.
I also like playing cards. When I was in high school and college, I often played cards with my classmates to upgrade, but I seldom played cards after work. I have worked for more than ten years, and I can count the times of playing cards with my colleagues with one hand. Every year I go back to my hometown in Hunan for the new year, I have to play mahjong with my relatives.
Mahjong is a traditional Chinese entertainment program, which is played everywhere. I only know Changsha mahjong, referred to as Changma. Long hemp is very interesting. It can be eaten and touched. It has one color, big pair of Hu, Jiang Hu, seven small pairs, flowers on the bar, fishing in the sea and asking for people. Before there is no Hu card, you can lack color Hu, General Hu, double three Hu and four son Hu. After the Hu card, you have to watch birds and double in an instant. Sometimes I admire the man who invented mahjong for making so many fun rules.
This year's Spring Festival starts from returning to Hunan's hometown for the new year. From the new year's Eve, the entertainment program after dinner is playing Changma. My level of playing Changma is average. I have to lose thousands of yuan every year. My relatives and friends say it's tuition. I paid my tuition and didn't learn much card skills. I can see some interesting things, that is to see people's character through playing cards. On the mahjong table, four people each according to one side, from speech to expression, from playing cards to Hu cards, there are so many rules, coupled with the stimulation of money, playing cards is really easy to see a person's character. It is said that cards are like character.
There is a kind of people who complain about bad cards from the first card. Either they don't give them to eat at home, or they can't touch good cards. Even if they have a beard, they still feel that their beard is too small and slow. Such people always frown when they are on the table. It is only when they have a big name that they rarely show a smile. This kind of people are also pessimistic in their life. They are not only pessimistic, but also complain about others. This kind of person will not achieve anything in his career, and his life will not be smooth; There is a kind of people, as long as they touch a good son, they will say that the cards are good. After eating a rare son, they will also joke and thank you. They are happy all the time. This kind of person is good at discovering fun and has a cheerful personality in life. Whether they have a career or not, such people live a good life.
There is a kind of person who plays cards very seriously. If others play a wrong card, he will stop it loudly. He often takes advantage of other people's mistakes and doesn't give others a chance to change. He has a big temper when he loses a card and is very proud when he wins a card. This kind of person is narrow-minded and shrewd; There is a kind of person who emphasizes the rules, but even if you make a mistake, he just points out and tells you not to do it again, or makes fun of you occasionally. This kind of human nature is open-minded and will not be too fussy in life.
There is a kind of person who makes a mistake and lights someone else's gun. Before others say much, he will emphasize that he has not made a mistake and say that he should play like this according to reason. In fact, he is not confident enough. He is worried that others say he has poor skills, which must be the same in life. On the contrary, there is a kind of person who won't pay attention to playing the wrong card. He may admit that he is not skilled, or joke that he wants to take care of the other party. This kind of person is a sign of self-confidence and has a strong heart.
There is a kind of person who is more focused on playing cards and is completely immersed in it. He ignores his mobile phone, TV and chat and only focuses on playing cards. Another kind of people, while playing cards while playing mobile phones, occasionally watch and listen, chat with others, but it doesn't affect playing cards at all. The former is easy to invest in things in life, while the latter is the opposite.
There is a kind of person who hesitates and worries about gain and loss when playing cards. Even if he is sure that a certain person wants to play, he holds the card in his hand for half a day. Another kind of person, clean and neat, makes a clean shot, quickly plays cards, and then observes the situation of the card field. The former is also indecisive and conservative in life, while the latter is the opposite.
There is a kind of people who play cards to be stable, not to make mistakes, not to lose, and to play cards quickly. There is a kind of people who play cards and take risks. They can play big Hu and big Hu. They will never miss the opportunity to have bars. The former has a plain life, while the latter has ups and downs
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After writing so much, it's just my idea. I saw a book recording the cards played by Zhu De, Mao Zedong, Zhou Enlai, Liu Shaoqi and others:
Zhu De's posture when playing cards was like planning a military operation. He kept muttering to himself. When a card against him was placed on the table, he shouted, "ah! I knew it was coming!" When he won, he threw his cards on the table and shouted proudly, "ha! I won!"
Mao Zedong hardly said a word when playing cards. He carefully observed his cards, moving slowly and gracefully, and playing very seriously. He plays cards like a strategist, always expressionless, calculating the distribution and probability of his opponent's cards. He looked at the cards in his hand, then at the cards on the table, and then at his cards. When taking cards, he always extends his arms long. After winning, he quietly arranges the cards in an arc and puts them on the table.
Liu Shaoqi strained his face while playing cards and cleared his throat nervously from time to time.
Zhou Enlai had a good manner when playing cards. He looked at all sides. First look at this person's face, and then look at that person's face. When he won, he always sighed and said, "Oh, that's all I can do." Then put the cards on the table.
Besides the story at the beginning of the article, the big company later chose the adventurous candidate. When making a decision, the person in charge of the organization department also said: this person can either make things bigger or there will be big problems. Later, facts proved that this person was not wrong. Things were really big. He changed the business department from a weak role to equal with his opponent. However, in the end, this person didn't end well. It is rumored that it was because of corruption. The matter is not listed below.
I believe many people are playing cards these days. Most of them are playing cards with relatives. It won't be too big. Winning or losing is not so important. You can try to observe everyone's style of playing cards and your own style at the same time. It's just that it's easy for a person to observe others, but difficult for him to observe himself. Because when you play cards, you are taken away by cards, and you can't remember to observe. When you think of observation, the game is over, and you won't remember those subtle performances. If you can observe yourself all the time, no matter what you are doing, this person is practicing all the time.