A middle school textbook once learned an article called "for learning", the original text is as follows: Is it easy or difficult to do things in the world? It is easy for those who are difficult to do it; If you don't do it, it's easy and difficult. How difficult is it to learn? Learning is easy for those who are difficult; If you don't learn, it's easy and difficult. There are two monks in Shu, one is poor and the other is rich. The poor said to the rich, "what is the South China Sea I want?" The rich man said, "why do you rely on me?" Said: "I have a bottle and a bowl is enough." The rich man said, "I've been trying to buy a boat for years, but I still haven't been able to do it. Why should I rely on it!" Next year, the poor will return from the South China Sea to sue the rich. The rich are ashamed. The journey to the South China Sea from Western Sichuan is thousands of miles away. The rich monk can't go there, but the poor monk can't. The determination of people is not as good as the despicable monk of Shu? Now I read this article again, thinking about my ignorance in those days, I found that the sad thing was to forget what kind of dream I had in those days. I just vaguely remember that when I was in primary school, I wanted to be an engineer or scientist. Later, this ambition was teased by my family for a long time, because my actions are far from my dreams. Nowadays, imagination is not surprising. (inspirational quotes www.lz13.cn) when you don't know who engineers and scientists are, your illusory dreams will not stand the test of years and will easily disappear. A nation without faith is sad, in other words, a person without dreams is also sad. When Yao Ming was 16 years old, he dreamed that he could participate in the Olympic Games; When Yang Lan was 16, she dreamed of becoming a botanist. And his dreams at the age of 16 are like a page of white paper, without any mark on it. Later, as I grew older, I also had some wonderful ideas to make myself do my best for it. Right should be a dream. Now it seems that this is at best a goal. Because dreams are not for realizing, but for guiding us. Later, these goals have been achieved, so I kept telling myself that I still need to make persistent efforts. The story of rich monk and poor monk tells me that the difference between people is one word "do". No matter how good a plan is, it's better to act immediately. Things only plan but don't take action, and you can only waste time in continuous self denial and being denied; And doing things can let oneself constantly experience the present, experience is everything, everything is experience. The lack of any knowledge is not the lack of books, but the lack of experience. In the choice between doing and not doing, we need to grasp a criterion is: whether to make ourselves happy. Because, only by doing things that make you happy, can you experience difficulties and dangers without retreating; Only in this way can we surpass our life limits with high fighting spirit and ambition, cross all kinds of seemingly insurmountable horizontal ditches, and lead us to truly find the ownership of our soul, so as to realize our long-awaited dream. Be happy and do things. Simple truth, but let more people flinch. Thus, the gap can be seen.

Emotions, the key to controlling your destiny People are always depressed, maybe because of a person, maybe because of a thing, people can't let go for a long time. Depression affects life and daily work and study. When you feel you are troubled by some problems, you might as well try the following twelve methods, which may be helpful. 1、 Identify a few things you think are the most valuable in your life, and then concentrate on doing them. When people are at a low tide, they are not interested in anything. Always thinking about those sad things. Therefore, if you want to get rid of this emotion, you should first let yourself not always think about these problems and divert attention. 2、 For a certain fact that cannot be changed, accept it wholeheartedly. Sometimes, some things cannot be changed by people. Now that it has become a fact, don't always think about how to turn it into nothingness, try to accept it and face the reality. One person cannot change the world, and things will not change because of you. All we can do is adapt to the world. The so-called natural selection, survival of the fittest, if you want to make yourself happy, you must first make yourself not so extreme, don't drill the horn. 3、 Life should be simple and interesting. Don't always be dissatisfied with your current life, and don't always compare with others. Your life should be wonderful. Sometimes, a happy life is not piled up with a lot of tickets. 4、 Forgive others as you forgive yourself. Tolerance is a virtue, the salvation of those who make mistakes, and the sublimation of their own hearts. Don't always think about how the other party offended you and how much loss it caused you. Think about whether the other party is worth asking you to be so angry. Was he intentional or unintentional? How are you doing on weekdays? To give each other a chance is to give yourself a chance. For some people, forgiveness is far more effective than punishment. Maybe it's just a momentary mistake, maybe it's just a flash of crooked ideas. People always make mistakes. Don't be too harsh. 5、 Believe that people can change. If you want to change others, you need to try to change yourself first. Don't always think that rivers and mountains are easy to change and nature is hard to change. Sometimes, as long as you have confidence, people can change. Maybe it's for friendship, maybe it's for love, or maybe it's for family. Treat others with a developmental perspective. Especially for people who love each other. Maybe you can't tolerate the other person's problems. If you love the other person, give him a chance to change. (www.lz13.cn) however, while being strict with the other party, we should also be strict with ourselves, and we should also correct some of our own shortcomings that the other party can't tolerate. Never be more strict with others than yourself. Doing so will make the other party sad and disappointed. 6、 Make sure that any pain and adversity are meaningful, and try to find out their significance. The pain you are suffering now is not meaningless. Nine times out of ten, life is unhappy. People will encounter a lot of pain in their life, which we cannot avoid. Pain can make people decadent, but also stimulate people's fighting spirit. Pain has tempered people's will, so that people will not be easily knocked down by difficulties. 7、 Don't seek perfection, partial beauty is also beauty. Pursuing a perfect life is everyone's dream. But does this perfection really exist? We spend all our lives just to pursue that perfect moment. Is it worth it? Everyone has shortcomings, and everything has shortcomings. Look at people and things, first see the good side. If you think this person is worth your efforts, I assure you that you can tolerate each other's shortcomings. Don't always focus on the ugly, so you will never find happiness and never have a good mood. 8、 Firmly reject those destructive emotions, such as resentment, sadness, anxiety, guilt, self pity and so on. People have evil thoughts, maybe it's just a moment's thought. There is no need to panic about having such evil thoughts. People's thoughts are complex, not just good thoughts. Sometimes some evil thoughts can also help people vent their dissatisfaction. For example, being bullied, you can imagine yourself beating him up, and so on. This is OK. The key is to control your evil thoughts and let them not affect your behavior. So evil thoughts are not terrible. As long as they are used properly, they can help people relieve pressure. 9、 Try different explanations for the stimulation that originally caused you some bad emotions. Sometimes a thing will be different due to the change of time. For a thing that is very painful to you at that time, you may have another opinion after a period of time. Try to look at the problem from different angles, and you may find that the pain is not as real as you think. 10、 Don't force, don't regret, and try to let things go. A mature person should have the courage to be responsible for what he has done. Don't regret what you have done, because it's your choice. Such a choice was recognized by you at that time, so you have no reason to regret it. Don't always think that maybe I won't have such consequences if I do that. You know, don't compare different choices with the same result. Maybe the result of another choice is worse than now. Now that you have chosen, don't regret it. As long as you try your best, let everything else develop naturally. Some things as long as you work hard, the harvest is natural. Don't always think about what results you will get. Appreciate your efforts with your heart. That's what you should remember most. 11、 Learn to enjoy ordinary things in daily life. Don't always imagine what strange things will happen here. This is not a fairy tale world. The world is realistic, cruel and beautiful. The more ordinary things are, the more shocking they are. Happiness is a kind of internal emergence. Real happiness does not lie in any external people, things or things. Never base your happiness on the pain of others. Such happiness will not last long, and will soon be replaced by endless pain.

Who is not eager for success? How to succeed, especially how to achieve rapid success, has become a problem that many people cannot put down in their hearts. Therefore, in order to find a shortcut, people often imitate successful people and expect to clone the same success. But success never knocks on their door. They were puzzled: why? In fact, many times, people don't lack diligence and persistence, but why don't they succeed? At this time, you need to calm down and think about what you can do and what you are suitable for. Don't always stare at the success of others. The light will be dazzling and make you confused in direction, so that you just want to be others, not yourself. In a word, sometimes, success is not as simple as dripping water wears stone. It's not enough to dance at the sound of a chicken. You have to know yourself well. Therefore, smart people will not copy the success of others, but fully understand themselves and do what they should do at the right time. There is a fable that is very interesting: an eagle swoops down to catch a sheep, catching one accurately. The crow was very envious, so he dived like an eagle to catch the sheep. As a result, his claws were caught by the wool, struggling and easily caught by the shepherd. The shepherd's son asked the shepherd, "Why are crows so easy to catch?" The Shepherd said, "because he forgot what bird it is!" We can't completely deny this crow's behavior. Soldiers who don't want to be generals are not good soldiers. Crows are eager for success and have the ideal of catching sheep, which is not wrong. But the end of the crow is very sad, and the reason is thought-provoking: if the crow knew that he was just a crow, no matter how much practice it could not practice the ability to dive in the air and catch sheep, it would not do that. It can be seen that only by knowing your qualifications, strengths and weaknesses, developing strengths and avoiding weaknesses, and working hard in fields suitable for you, can you have a chance of success. There are many negative examples, such as learning to walk in Handan and imitating others. They all tell the same story. Take a look at the story of Li Ning, the prince of Gymnastics: Li Ning plans to retire after achieving three gold, two silver and one copper achievements in the Los Angeles Olympic Games. At this time, Li Ning was 25 years old and full of injuries. It was time to quit the sports world, both in terms of age and physical condition. In the 1988 Seoul Olympic Games, the national team let Li Ning take the lead in the case of being out of time. Li Ning, who knew it was not suitable but did not want to bear the reputation of ingratitude, took part in it, and was defeated in Seoul. This failure made him deeply realize that he is not suitable to be a gymnast anyway. If he retires, he may create new brilliance in his life. When he got off the plane back home, he walked alone on the passage dozens of meters away without flowers and applause. This is a gray passage called "the way of the world" by Li Ning. Well, this gray way made him learn to think, re understand himself, and better understand what time is suitable for doing, what is not suitable for doing, and how to be the master of time and success. Later, as we all know, Li Ning created the famous Li Ning brand sportswear and promoted the development of China's sports industry. He not only created sports miracles, but also created brilliant business. Only by doing the right thing at the right time can we know ourselves, manage ourselves and live a wonderful life.

1、 Only by constantly pursuing, can we continue to move forward Life is not arranged by fate, but by fate! We should be masters of our destiny. The luck and misfortune of life will always accompany you. Fate can decide the success or hardship of your struggle, but the result of your pursuit is always in your own hands.

Sometimes, you must inject some chicken blood into your decadence to quickly wake up from your paranoia. The chicken blood therapy of a wandering doctor in the Jianghu may not have any effect, but the moment the needle enters the skin, the smell of blood is still somewhat stimulating!

Because I am in the manufacturing industry, I often meet all kinds of people, including underworld, officials, factory employees and office white-collar workers. Their income is not high, ranging from 3000 to 7000 a month, but this level is not low in China. Not to mention the boss, since China's accession to the WTO, foreign trade has ushered in unprecedented opportunities. With a net worth of less than 10 million, they are embarrassed to say that they have done foreign trade. Here, from the boss to the employees, from the guests to the acquaintances, you can always experience such a tendency. Sometimes when we talk, we say, "Hey, reading is not so useful. Look at you." After reading so many books, you didn't end up working with your boss

After working out in the gym for a long time, I will meet all kinds of interesting friends. An aunt who doesn't exercise and just takes two steps to take a bath; A muscular man who yells during exercise; Pay special attention to the image. Girls with heavy make-up for fitness... Can't see, only can't think of. One of them, after each exercise, immediately weighed himself to see the effect of his exercise that day. He usually exercises for 20 minutes each time, weighs himself and finds that he has not succeeded in losing weight, which is very painful. He complains that he has worked hard and still can't lose weight. Then he went out to have a big meal. The next day, I took a short exercise and weighed myself, but it didn't work, so I went to eat haisai. In fact, this is a sign of impetuosity. We often want to get a reward immediately after we pay, and ask for success immediately after we work hard. Once there is no return, they will complain and abandon themselves. These people always miscalculate the cost behind success and always want to find a shortcut and quick rule for success. In fact, almost every successful person has a quiet time of hard work, in which there are hard sweat and countless tears of failure. Many people admit defeat at the moment before dawn. Only those who can walk through the darkness can finally achieve real success. In 2011, when I decided to stay in Beijing for development, I had a particularly difficult time. But at that time, my department required that all teachers should not substitute for others, and only the salary for the shift. That salary was really difficult for a Beipiao. In addition, I have to raise my mother and sister, so I am even more short of money. It is inevitable that "a penny can't defeat a hero". That is why I am very angry when my roommate says that he wants to share the electricity bill equally. Although it's only a matter of tens of dollars, I feel that I go out early and return late every day. Sometimes I work all night in the company. I seldom use electricity at home and let me share it equally. It's too unfair. The stinginess revealed under the indignation and the pain hidden behind it are all due to the economic constraints. However, the economic difficulties did not make me a money oriented person for my livelihood. In my embarrassment, I thought that if I want to be invincible in the future, I must sharpen a competitiveness that really belongs to me and make me irreplaceable because of this competitiveness. At that time, my English level was good. Considering that I had accumulated some advantages in my speech from childhood, I wanted to combine the two to form my core competitiveness. But "how to achieve" is another problem I face. After all, classes and speeches are different, and there are many restrictions. During that time, I thought hard and finally got a flash of inspiration. I thought of a talk show I liked very much. The host liked to comment on current events in a humorous way. If we do this in the form of English classes, what effect will it have on the Internet? In november2011, I recorded online teaching videos for the first time. The recording equipment was a simple DV. I set up a white board at home and began to work. In that year, there was a hot topic, "ordinary youth, literary and art youth and special second-year youth". The idea of recording at that time was to tell you how to say these three online hot words in English. At the end of the video, I also used my own photos to explain what the ordinary me, the literary me and the very second me are like. In order to save money and time, I looked in the mirror to cut my hair. I didn't expect that the scissors would lose their shape. I simply went out of my way to have another cut. As a result, my hairstyle became more ugly. Although my hairstyle is weird and my body is slightly fat, I still insisted on finishing this video. The point I want to express is: ordinary youth, literary youth and special second-class youth are three different states of human beings. No matter how good they are, there will be two times. No matter how good they are, they may one day be incomparable. Therefore, they should learn to respect others. The number of network hits of this program is 5000. I can't think that in just two years, my video hits will exceed 50million. At that time, I said that "a person with two can become a cow". I didn't expect to take my own example. Persistence has indeed brought gratifying results. Two years, from 50million to 50million, is not a small progress, but behind this figure, it is also an equivalent effort and hardship. In order to save the video editor from spending too much time editing, I usually tell the video many times in advance until there is no slip of tongue from beginning to end, so that he can edit it without wasting his time. This means that without a teleprompter and a prompt board, I need 10 hours of preparation time for every 5-minute course recording, practice and PPT. There are very few people like me who record only for the purpose of recording courses at no cost at all. Until now, some people think that this is a project of our department, because I can insist on recording it because of the class fee. But in fact, so far, I haven't directly received class fees for this program. The purpose of this is very simple: after recording, everyone is willing to watch it, and they are very happy; If you can't record it well, you can record it more times. Anyway, it is an improvement of your ability. In a dream of Red Mansions, it is said that "knowledge is everything that is clear", and there is knowledge in everything. Knowledge can be spoken in both Chinese and English. Since we have spoken so much in Chinese, why not in English? Therefore, in my videos, there are "learning English by playing games", which is popular with male students, and "learning English by watching Korean dramas", which is of interest to female students. Later, I continued to explore and develop new forms. For example, I invited some great people to my program to share their experiences, invited some people who had seen the program to participate in video recording, and gave myself a chance to practice oral English by speaking in the program. These explorations have achieved good results. If I had given up this program because of my busy work at that time, if I had given up this program because of no pay at that time, I would not be who I am today. No one can do anything just for immediate short-term interests. Only when he learns not to seek short-term interests, can he go further on the road of long-term success. For me, this is the key to success. With this key, I will open countless doors. The meaning of life, if only lies in success, won't get much happiness, because success is like fireworks, just a moment, more often, the night sky is dark. A man can not succeed, but he can not grow up. There is always something more important than success.

When you walk on the road, do you care if others' eyes are on you? People often care about what others think of themselves. And in some cases it will become face. Men especially love face. Excessive care about other people's eyes will seriously affect their quality of life. And abandon those, will be less a lot of trouble. Try to put aside the eyes of others and just be yourself. The world is different.