We always think we have no choice. But not making any choice is just standing still. It is also a choice, and you can choose not to do this to yourself.
Most people always think that not making choices means not making any choices, but in fact, "not making choices" is also a kind of choices, but you just choose not to act.
"Opportunities are always available, but without strength, opportunities are not yours."
No one has the responsibility to give you opportunities unless you strive for them. In other words, opportunities are won, not waiting.
Don't complain about why no one gives you a chance. Instead, ask yourself whether you have enough ability. When the opportunity comes, whether you have enough ability to firmly grasp it.
People will always encounter several great opportunities in their life. Don't worry about why the opportunity hasn't come yet. On the contrary, you should worry about whether you have the ability to firmly grasp it when the opportunity comes.
When an opportunity comes, usually everyone will have several reactions.
1、 Strive for
2、 Choose not to fight
3、 Let it be
4、 Invisible opportunity
Usually, when an opportunity comes, it is yours only when you strive for it. Let it be or not, the opportunity usually slips away. As long as you look around carefully, you can actually find that there are opportunities everywhere, but some people can't see it, some people ignore it, and successful people will actively strive for it.
Most people are not actively looking for opportunities, but waiting for an opportunity.
Even some people choose to do things that go against their true thoughts because they are afraid to live up to the expectations of others. When we choose to make a choice that meets the expectations of others, it is easy to find out later that this is not what we want.
In fact, it's not that we don't have a chance, but that we don't make a choice. As long as we think carefully, we will find that successful people know how to observe the changes around us, and then create opportunities for themselves according to the current situation. For example, in the current network revolution, some people choose to start a business at this time, and then succeed. Some people don't see the opportunity, or are unwilling to change and afraid to bear the consequences of failure, So it's not that I don't have a chance, but that I'm not willing to make a choice.
What is more important than opportunity is what actions are you willing to take and what choices are you willing to make?
Do you choose to study hard, even if you have to sacrifice an hour of reading every day?
Can you choose to get up an hour earlier than others just to do a better job every day?
Can you choose to run more customers in order to increase the company's performance?
It is our daily choices that make everyone different in life.
"A good decision does not depend on the choices you make at the moment, but on the decisions you make. Therefore, people who are not willing to be responsible can never make a good decision."
Everyone should prepare himself every day, because what he does every day is preparing for the future. When a person is fully prepared, the opportunity comes. If he is not prepared, no matter what opportunity he has, it is not his.
No matter what you want to do, the most difficult thing is to take the first step. When you have the courage to take the first step, you will feel that there is nothing. Life is accumulated by a series of choices and decisions. Every seemingly insignificant action determines your future life.
There is no need to worry about life. No one gives you opportunities, because opportunities depend on your own creation. More importantly, whether you are willing to make choices or not. Life itself is constantly making choices. Even if you are not willing to make choices, it is also a choice.